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11 Stages Makes Any Relationship Go Through!

Men better than others to find flattering compliments for the girlfriend succeeds some. What compliments of love have you received already, which have remained in your memory? If your friend is rather taciturn and sparing with dear statements, do not get angry. If it really upsets you, that you get compliments so rarely, it helps guaranteed, if you draw attention to it. Or have you overlooked how much your friend appreciates you because he shows you his love in a different way? Relationships are never static. Much more is a true rollercoaster of feelings from the first kiss to the wedding bells. Whether you have already found the great love or have just passed the first quarrel with your treasure, we have selected the characteristic phases of a relationship for you!

Stage 1: The Pink Glasses

It tingles in the belly: You are freshly in love! Especially in the early days, the sky is full of violins and the thoughts revolve only around the dearest. You just want to spend time with each other and the rest of the world is blinded. It is holding hands, the partner is completely idealized and at all everything is sooo caaaaaaalm!

11 Stages Make Any Relationship Go Through
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Stage 2: Learning

Let’s talk about us, baby! Even if the first kisses and affections are very special, in the learning phase, you will first see who really belongs together. Now deep conversations are being conducted and your partner becomes your beloved. Of course, you and your partner do not always have to agree, but for the later course of the relationship, it is important that you share basic values and attitudes.

Stage 3: The First Dispute

Oh, it’s killing – and actually he was Mr. Perfect! Spoiler Alert: Mr. Perfect does not exist and it’s okay to argue. Of course, the case of Cloud Seven is hard, but it is much better, to be honest, to quarrel with each other as if you just get something pre-played and the evil awakening only months later. So be grateful for the first nib and look forward to the more, what you think – for the reconciliation.

Stage 4: Meet Friends and Family

Let’s be honest: Not only the partner must please but the friends, mother-in-law, and papa should also be harmonized. After all, you will meet more often on birthdays, Christmas and (family) celebrations. In addition, the relationship usually only has a happy future when friends and family give the “go”. You will certainly be put to the test at the first meetings and you will be served the one or the other precarious question. Do not let yourself be confused! Even if the mother-in-law is annoyed, give everyone time to know you, usually improve the relationship over the years!

Stages Make Any Relationship Go Through
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Stage 5: Compare, File, Change

Admittedly, women tend to change their partner. After all, he could be more attentive. The friends and colleague, for example, always send flowers on the anniversary. Why does not mine? Well, maybe because he’s not the type. In this relationship, it is particularly important to be open and honest with each other and to share wishes and needs – without reproaching others. “Why do I never get flowers?” is not a constructive solution. Is more likely, “with a few flowers you would give me a great pleasure”. Also, it is not helpful to compare with any x another pair. It is better to invest time and energy into your own relationship.

Stage 6: Finding Compromises

Yes, Mr. Not-So-Perfect also has its pages of shadows. But you have seen that there is nothing to change, and he has also learned to accept your quirks. Great, you are on the best way to the success! Compromises are enormously important for a relationship because only those who are willing to work on themselves and the partnership will remain together. So the next time you plan a trip together and want to go to the sea and you go to the city, choose a destination like Barcelona, because Barcelona offers both!

Stage 7: Tightening

Some people are already very early, the others like to take this decision a little longer. The fact is, the contraction may be well thought. Although you have a rent and are a close partner, however, you get to know each other from a completely different side. You can get your retreat and have your loved one around the clock. The pan in the sink, the dirty sock on the couch: the pulling together has a lot of fighting potential. There is nothing better than a common love-nest! So do not let a rough start. Worth it!

Stage 8: Welcome to Everyday Life

First, everything was pink, then became acquainted, then followed the common apartment and now? Yes, now the everyday life is there and harbors so much potential. Not every encounter is brimming with spontaneous romance and loving attention. Much more in this time routines evolve and your partner no longer breeds itself at every meeting for you. Instead, there are more often the couch and jogging trousers – and maybe a little “relationship” is formed in one or the other. But that does not have to be bad! To relax together and to have someone to talk and cuddle is after a stressful day but a real treat.

Phases Make Any Relationship Go Through
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Stage 9: Trust and Deep Connectedness

To be blind and to rely on others is the best. If you can glitch the sentences of the other end and together laughing at insiders, you have finally arrived. Now the time can be fully enjoyed because one can be open with the partner, trust him completely and has got used to every moment. Light and heavy phases have welded together one. Now, remote future plans can also be forged together. So, not which concert we go next month, but rather in the direction of the house, dog, wedding and/or trousers. Particularly important in this phase: Do not look at the others as self-evident!

Stage 10: Inquiries in Relationship

This relationship phase can always creep in if you do not pay attention: It does not always have to go to the midlife crisis until a relationship is questioned. Do I want to spend my whole life with him? Do I still have feelings for him? And what about this nice work colleague who is after me? If you are embarrassed to question your feelings for your partner, talk best about it. Of course, such conversations hurt, but as already mentioned: Who wants a functioning relationship must work on it! Find out with your loved one what you miss each other and take time for each other. A joint holiday or other shared positive experiences can help, for example, to give a relationship a new impetus.

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Stage 11: The Happy End

You do not have to ring the wedding bells at once, but if you have experienced all the ups and downs with your treasure and you can look back on many happy years, this is a complete success. Now there is only the common feeding of ducks in old age. Little fun! Relationships and relations are always changing, and the phases which they thought were already in place, can return at any time. Do not take your partner for granted, take time for beautiful experiences, pay attention to his company and be happy that you have found someone who can make you happy! And if you can answer these 6 questions with “yes”, it will definitely work with the marriage later!

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